Teenage dating when
Parents may joke that it’s an experience they want their child to have -- just not until somewhere around the age of 30. A 6th grade girl may say, "Jacob is my boyfriend," but what does that mean?
Seriously, though, when is your child ready to date? "At this age, kids use dating labels but aren’t ready to have much direct one-on-one interaction beyond maybe sitting together at lunch or recess," says Dale Atkins, Ph D, a family therapist in New York.
It's their call, of course, but here again we believe it's crucial that mom and dad know their child's dating partner and his or her parents well.Binge drinking, date violence, and even date rape are far too common.In light of this, we would advise that boys and girls under the age of seventeen should not be allowed to go out on one-on-one dates.appropriate and encourage their children to follow Josh Harris's "courtship" model.Others feel that dating can be a positive experience for teens provided they are mature enough and the parents know and trust the dating partner.